Beauty. Every body’s concern especially women . nice clothes makes us beautiful , make ups make us beautiful , a good hair cut make us look beautiful , plastic surgery makes us beautiful . we can correct what we think as errors in our selves but are they really errors which keep us away from perfection ? .
When we look in the mirror each morning and feel unsatisfied with what we see first thing we think about why I’m not more beautiful ? why my nose is not straight as I want it to be? , why my lips are not smaller or bigger? , why my skin is not fair , why my body is not thinner or chubbier? why I’m not taller or shorter ?. I know I did ask these questions sometimes , until I hated myself. eventually I stopped looking at the mirror and if I did I don’t bother that much if I don’t look like the women in my dreams . that one is just a want , I want to be like , but in reality this is me with all of my imperfection with all of my errors we can say , and what I need to do is love me as i am
Imagine if we don’t have mirrors I believe we won’t bother about looks we will see ourselves reflected in others eyes , the human mirror . that mirror is somehow honest it mostly deals with the real us not the image and that’s what counts, image doesn’t necessarily reflect the real person we are , most people hide behind that image or let’s call it mask .
Those masks could hide a monster and often it does of the time and I believe all of us had met a beautiful monster at some point . or we have had lost an angel because of a mask which we didn’t read correctly we have been captured by the first impression . I always ask myself how come with all of our knowledge we can’t go beyond this external shell ? how come we don’t see that inner beauty or ugliness the real jewel or coal .
Now look who’s talking I was whining about my small nose for ages but I never considered a plastic surgery not once , not because I’m afraid of the knife or concerned about the coast . I didn’t because I can’t cheat myself, each time i would look in the mirror I’ll feel disconnected a stranger in my own skin that’s sounds very missed up , so I did the best thing I could do , I embraced myself fully and deeply I wasn’t looking at those error any more I kept on looking for those tiny things that makes me different and unique .so my small nose makes me look young not ugly and so on . even my inner self I took a look at it I was satisfied I’m not so bad in my own way .
I don’t know for sure what brought ht this subject but I felt philosophic today I’m not even sure if there is a term like that however , what I want to say is drop those masks you don’t need them I don’t need them , don’t mind if you have a small nose or big lips or if you are limping, all of us have a flow which makes us unique in a way you don’t have to be beautiful to be admired and no one will do that if you don’t admire yourself , not in a cocky way though , as they say beauty comes from within so let us, me, you , them take a close look inside to see our magnificent us and let that glow shine we will be more happy even if we are not perfect in the outside it’s enough to be from the inside. So if people can’t see it and there will be some , that’s their shame not ours .
I know most of you will say appearance make all the deference and I agree but if it becomes an obsession then we have a problem . yes in this material world some unqualified people get good promotions or get lead roles or get treated better just because they are beautiful . this is a fact we can’t ignore but we can’t get effected by it either because at some point they will crack under the presser they will lose that charm beauty fades with time passing by which leave us with the real personality whether it’s ugly or beautiful . so embrace that amazing person in you don’t look for perfect look for honest normal and real.